Unconventional Sleepovers: Sleeping In Unowned Spaces

Sleeping in a place you don't own is a situation that many people find themselves in, whether it's due to financial constraints, travel plans gone awry, or simply a desire for adventure. This phenomenon can be referred to as sleeping rough or homelessness. While it may be a choice for some, for others, it is a necessity brought on by circumstances beyond their control. This topic explores the various places where people can sleep when they don't have a traditional home, including cars, public spaces, and temporary accommodations. It also delves into the challenges and uncertainties faced by those without stable housing, as well as the resourcefulness and resilience they must possess to navigate their daily lives.

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Sleeping in a car

Preparing for the night

The first step is to make sure you have the right supplies. This will depend on the weather conditions and your location. If it's cold, invest in a good sleeping bag and a knit hat to keep yourself warm. You might also want to bring a safety pin to keep your sleeping bag closed and a sleep mask or eye mask to block out light. If it's hot, a thin cloth or mesh for the windows can help keep insects out while letting air in. Other useful items include a pillow, a blanket, a phone, a book, hand sanitiser, and baby wipes.

Choosing the perfect spot

When selecting a spot to park for the night, it's important to consider the legality and safety of the location. Stores like Walmart, movie theatres, or 24-hour gyms are often good choices because it's hard to tell who is sleeping in their cars. Churches and other sanctuary-like establishments are usually quiet during the week. Backroads and underpasses can be good low-volume areas, but make sure they are truly remote and not just appearing deserted. Residential areas that allow street parking can also work, but be mindful of parking restrictions and don't stay too long to avoid looking suspicious.

Getting comfortable

Once you've found your spot, there are a few things you can do to make your car more comfortable. Visit the bathroom beforehand, and consider cracking the windows for ventilation, especially if it's stuffy or warm. Take an anti-inflammatory like ibuprofen to ease any aches and pains, and adjust your seats to give yourself more space. If you're in the back seat, move the front seats forward and tuck in the seatbelt clips. If possible, recline the back seats or pop open the trunk to create more space. Get into comfortable clothes, but stay dressed in case you need to get up suddenly.

Presenting yourself well

Finally, remember that your behaviour and appearance can impact how others perceive you. Keep in mind that car camping is often technically illegal, so try to fly under the radar. Be friendly and polite, especially if you're approached by authorities or concerned citizens. Have a simple, believable story ready to explain why you're sleeping in your car. For example, you could say you're on your way to a rally and can't afford a hotel, or you're escaping an abusive relationship and heading to a relative's house.

Hostels

The first hostel was opened in 1912 by German teacher Richard Schirrmann, who wanted to provide inexpensive accommodation for youth travel. Schirrmann founded the German Youth Hostel Association in 1919, and the International Youth Hostel Federation (now Hostelling International) was established in 1932. Today, there are over 4,500 hostels worldwide that are part of this organisation.

YMCA

The YMCA (Young Men's Christian Association) is a great option for those seeking affordable accommodations. With locations in New York City and Berkeley, CA, the YMCA offers private rooms with twin beds, free WiFi, and access to community kitchens. The YMCA in Berkeley also offers a community kitchen for guests to use, although there are no meal services provided.

The YMCA has been providing vital housing options to end homelessness and is known for its open-door policy, catering specifically to individuals with a lack of financial resources. It offers not just a place to stay but also a sense of community, helping residents build a social network.

The YMCA's accommodation is similar to the now-eliminated Single Room Occupancy (SRO) housing model, which provided individuals with a small room, minimal storage, and rudimentary cooking facilities, along with shared restrooms and showers. The song "YMCA" by the Village People immortalised this type of living arrangement, capturing the target demographic of young men new to a town and in need of affordable lodging.

Today, the YMCA continues to offer cost-effective accommodations, with nightly rates ranging from $57 to $129 per room in Berkeley. The New York City location charges a $10 daily guest room membership fee, providing access to amenities such as locker rooms, group exercise classes, cardio and weight rooms, and swimming pools.

With its commitment to inclusivity and support for those facing homelessness, the YMCA serves as a launchpad for individuals to pursue their future plans and achieve their full potential.

Camping

Choosing a Campsite

When selecting a campsite, it is important to prioritise your safety and comfort. Look for a site that is well-lit and secure, preferably with other campers around. If you are camping in a remote area, make sure you are prepared with the necessary equipment and supplies. Research local laws and regulations regarding camping to ensure you are complying with any rules and restrictions.

Access to Facilities

Consider the facilities you will need access to during your camping trip. Basic necessities include restrooms, food, and water. Some campsites may offer additional amenities such as showers, electricity, and recreational activities. If you are camping in an area without facilities, be sure to bring your own supplies, including environmentally friendly toiletries.

Convenience and Location

Think about how convenient the campsite is in terms of its location. Is it easily accessible, or will you need to hike or drive a long distance to reach it? Consider your travel plans and the activities you want to do during your trip. If you plan to visit specific attractions or explore a particular area, look for campsites nearby to minimise travel time.

Cost

Traffic Frequency

If you prefer a quieter camping experience, pay attention to the traffic frequency at the campsite. Sites located near popular attractions or during peak seasons tend to be busier. Consider camping during off-peak times or choosing less popular campsites if you want more peace and privacy.

Planning and Preparation

Before embarking on your camping trip, make sure you have all the necessary equipment, including a suitable tent, sleeping bag, cooking gear, and appropriate clothing. Research the weather conditions and pack accordingly. It is also a good idea to familiarise yourself with basic camping skills, such as setting up your tent, building a campfire, and navigating the area.

Remember to always leave no trace when camping. Respect the environment by disposing of waste properly, minimising your impact on the surroundings, and following any specific guidelines provided by the campsite or local authorities.

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