Gina Johnson
Many parents complain about their babies being light sleepers, waking up at the slightest noise and struggling to get them back to sleep. However, it is a myth that some babies are light sleepers while others are heavy sleepers. In reality, all babies go through cycles of light and deep sleep, with some spending more time in the light sleep stage. This is because babies have shorter sleep cycles than adults, moving in and out of light sleep more frequently. Light sleep is REM sleep, when we dream and are more aware of our surroundings, making it easier to wake up. While you can't teach a baby to spend more time in deep sleep, you can teach them to fall back asleep independently. This involves eliminating sleep props such as pacifiers, rocking, or feeding, and instead, creating a consistent routine to help them develop independent sleep skills.
| Characteristics | Values |
|---|---|
| Sleep cycle | Babies have shorter sleep cycles than adults and spend nearly twice as much time in light sleep stages than adults. |
| Sleep props | Babies who are rocked, fed, or given a pacifier to sleep become dependent on these props and are unable to sleep independently. |
| Self-soothing | Babies who can self-soothe can fall into a deeper sleep state more quickly. |
| Environmental factors | Noise, light, and movement can easily wake a light sleeper. |
| Sleep training | Sleep coaches can help parents develop a plan to teach their babies to sleep independently. |
| White noise | White noise or neutral sounds in the room can help mask other noises and aid sleep. |
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What You'll Learn
- Babies have shorter sleep cycles than adults
- Babies who self-soothe can enter a deeper sleep state more quickly
- Rocking, feeding, or giving a pacifier to your baby can cause prop dependency
- White noise can help babies sleep through external noises
- Teaching babies to fall asleep independently can help them sleep through the night
Babies have shorter sleep cycles than adults
It is normal for babies to be light sleepers, and there are several reasons why your 13-month-old might be a light sleeper. Firstly, babies have shorter sleep cycles than adults. While an adult's sleep cycle is about 90 minutes, babies' sleep cycles are about 40 minutes long. This means that babies tend to wake up more often than adults.
Secondly, newborns have not yet fully developed a strong circadian rhythm, which is what makes children and adults tired at night instead of during the day. Most babies start to approximate an "adult" sleep schedule between three months and one year of age. However, even after one year, it is common for many babies to wake up at least once per night.
Additionally, babies experience a short REM (rapid-eye movement) stage almost immediately after falling asleep, whereas adults do not experience REM sleep until they have been asleep for around 90 minutes. REM sleep is a lighter stage of sleep, and babies can be easily woken up during this stage. Children also have more REM sleep and light non-REM sleep in the second half of the night, which is why they may wake up more towards the morning.
Finally, some babies may be dependent on external factors or "props" to fall asleep, such as being rocked or fed by their parents. This can make it difficult for them to fall asleep independently and may contribute to light sleeping.
To help your baby become a deeper sleeper, you can try to teach them to sleep independently and create a consistent bedtime routine. You can also try to minimise noise and light distractions in their room, such as by using room-darkening blinds or a fan to create a neutral sound that masks other noises.
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Babies who self-soothe can enter a deeper sleep state more quickly
Babies who are rocked, fed, or given a pacifier to fall asleep develop a "prop dependency", meaning they rely on something external to help them sleep. This can result in light sleeping, as they are unable to self-soothe and need their parents' assistance to fall back asleep.
Self-soothing is an important developmental step and life skill for children. Babies who self-soothe can enter a deeper sleep state more quickly and fall back asleep with little to no crying and without caregiver assistance. This is beneficial because light sleepers may wake up more frequently.
To encourage self-soothing, parents can employ soothing techniques and create a consistent bedtime routine. A bedtime routine could include calm activities such as reading a book, singing a song, or taking a bath—these activities signal to the baby's body that it is time to relax and fall asleep. A consistent bedtime is also important, as it sets the baby's internal clock and helps them feel sleepy at a predictable time.
Additionally, it is recommended to encourage self-soothing behaviors before separation anxiety kicks in around 8 to 9 months. This can be challenging, as babies who are already worried about being separated from their favorite adults may find it difficult to soothe themselves back to sleep.
Other tips for light sleepers include putting them in their own room, turning down the thermostat, using room-darkening blinds or curtains, and creating a neutral sound in the room with a fan or radio to mask other noises.
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Rocking, feeding, or giving a pacifier to your baby can cause prop dependency
There could be many reasons for your 13-month-old to be a light sleeper. One of the reasons could be that they are dependent on external factors or props to fall asleep. Rocking, feeding, or giving a pacifier to your baby every time they sleep can cause prop dependency. This means that they will not be able to sleep independently and will always need something external to help them get to sleep.
Babies who are rocked or fed to sleep might not have independent sleep skills. They might be dependent on these external factors to fall asleep. It is important to teach your baby to self-soothe and fall asleep independently. You can set up a consistent routine and experience for falling asleep so that they know what to expect. For example, you can say, "You're okay, go back to sleep". Once they have the cognitive ability to understand what you are saying, they will be able to put themselves back to sleep.
Similarly, giving a pacifier to your baby to help them fall asleep can also cause prop dependency. Pacifiers can be useful to calm and soothe a fussy baby and can also help preterm infants to feed. They are also associated with a lower risk of SIDS. However, they can also cause feeding problems, dental problems, sleep disturbances, and dependence. If your baby is dependent on a pacifier to sleep, they might wake up crying if it falls out of their mouth in the middle of the night. They might also develop an overbite, and the risk of ear infections may increase.
To prevent your baby from becoming dependent on a pacifier, it is recommended to phase them out after 6 months. Many children will stop using a pacifier on their own between the ages of 2 and 4. If your baby has trouble giving up the pacifier, you can talk to their doctor or dentist about it. You can also try coaxing them and praising their efforts.
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White noise can help babies sleep through external noises
A light sleeper baby often wakes up due to external factors such as noise and light. They are dependent on their parents to fall back asleep and lack independent sleep skills.
White noise can be an effective solution to help babies sleep through external noises. It refers to sounds that mask other sounds that might occur naturally in an environment. For instance, if you live in a city, white noise could help block out noises associated with traffic. White noise machines could also benefit families with multiple children of different ages. For example, if your baby needs a nap, white noise can help block out the noise of siblings.
White noise machines are often included in the "must-have" section of baby registries, and some parents use them throughout a child's toddler years. Music streaming apps offer white noise playlists curated for babies, and gadgets abound, including white noise players specifically designed for stroller naps. The feature is also built into many baby monitors.
However, it's important to note that white noise should be used appropriately and safely. Medical researchers have called for the regulation of white noise devices as long-term exposure to white noise at high volumes could harm development, leading to hearing loss and learning setbacks. Researchers have found that commercially available white noise machines can reach a volume of 91 decibels, exceeding exposure recommendations set by health and safety regulators. Therefore, it's recommended to limit white noise for babies to 60 decibels, which is the volume of a normal conversation.
If you decide to use white noise, look for a machine with continuous noise, white noise, and no extra lights. It's also important to establish a consistent bedtime routine and encourage self-soothing to help your baby become a deeper sleeper.
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Teaching babies to fall asleep independently can help them sleep through the night
Babies have lightning-fast sleep cycles, which means they return to very light and easily disturbed sleep about every 45 to 60 minutes, making them vulnerable to frequent wake-ups throughout the night. Sleep training methods are about teaching your baby that they are capable of falling asleep independently.
One reason could be that they haven't yet learned to fall asleep independently. If you're rocking your baby to sleep, feeding them to sleep, or giving them a pacifier every time they sleep, they become dependent on these external aids and struggle to fall asleep on their own.
- Ensure your baby is tired enough, but not too tired. Follow age-appropriate wake windows and pay attention to sleepy cues to find the right time to put your baby down for a nap or bedtime.
- Establish a bedtime routine to cue your baby's brain that sleep is coming. This can be simple, such as feeding, diaper change, swaddling, singing a lullaby, and placing your baby in the crib.
- When your baby starts to fuss, let them try to fall asleep on their own. If the crying continues for several minutes, you can go into their room, but don't turn on the lights, pick them up, or play with them. You can give them a gentle pat and tell them to go back to sleep in a soothing and gentle tone.
- Be patient. It can take several weeks for your baby to learn to put themselves to sleep.
- During the day, ensure your baby gets enough physical activity and interaction to stimulate their brain and body and prepare them for sleep.
- If your baby wakes up and cries during the night, it's okay to check on them or give verbal reassurance. Once they have enough cognitive ability to understand what you're saying and that you're still there, they can start to put themselves back to sleep.
In addition to teaching independent sleeping, there are a few other things you can try to improve your baby's sleep:
- When your baby is at least six months old, consider putting them in their own room to reduce the chance of being awoken by noise from family members.
- Turn down the thermostat at night, and if possible, close the door to keep out pets and sounds from the rest of the house.
- Use room-darkening blinds or curtains to block out any light.
- Create neutral sound in the room with a fan or radio to mask other noises. Alternatively, try a kid-specific noise machine or stuffed animal that plays soothing sounds or music.
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Frequently asked questions
All babies are light sleepers and heavy sleepers. Sleep is cyclical, and we go from light sleep to heavy sleep and back again several times a night. Some babies spend more time in the light sleep stage before slipping into a deeper sleep.
Babies who are rocked, fed, or given a pacifier to sleep become dependent on these "sleep props". Teach your baby to sleep independently by eliminating these props. Set up a consistent bedtime routine so they know what to expect.
While it’s difficult to make your baby less sensitive to noise or light, you can get them used to "ambient noise" by keeping them in your room until they are at least six months old. Then, transition them to their own room to reduce the chance of them being awoken by noise from you or other family members.
